The Hypothesis: It is my best guess that for five days, no one will comment on my wardrobe and that I will blend into the student body at this small, Catholic school. I believe that the way I dress is not an indicator of my abilities, but that students may perceive me as average and more approachable when dressed like I do not care about appearances but that when I go back to my usual dress I will be treated as though I am frivolous.
Why Does This Matter: In the modern world a person should be judged on their abilities and not the way they look. Just because I enjoy putting on a new Milly dress does not mean I am stupid. I hope to help break these judgements.
Photos from Morgan Harding, Abercrombie & Fitch, Tumblr |
The initial reaction from day one was a mix of confusion and openness. The people who know me best were mildly confused as to why I look like a straight-out-of-Brooklin hipster but the random twenty- somethings I encountered were more apt to talk to me about their lives. Multiple people told me that they never realized I was so nice and friendly, one person asked me if it was laundry day. Perhaps it's because I look more like them and less like a lost adjunct. At the same time no staff members commented on me at all. Normally the cafeteria staff is especially friendly toward me. I had never gone through a dining period without someone giving me a compliment or starting a conversation about clothing - until today.
Day Two - Tuesday, January 22: There was a bit of a snow storm last night and I had a hunch that campus would be a bit icy. Under normal circumstances I would wear a skinny pant and biker boots but during times of an in-climate environment, the Misericordia girl grabs her UGG boots. Luckily I have two pairs of these furry wonders from high school. I decided to dig into my past for the rest of my outfit - a pink henley I bought from Abercrombie & Fitch in tenth grade with a green Abercrombie zip-up over. My American Eagle jeggings would do nicely with this outfit. I have not worn shirts with words on them since tenth grade. I feel like a tween wonderkin.
Today was the first day in my experiment that I had to go down the hall of professor offices. Normally I interact with various profs - in the least they always say hello. Today was different though - I went unacknowledged with the exception of the professor who mistook me for someone who blew off a meeting with him earlier that day - sorry sir, not me. The opposite happened with the student population. I actually became annoyed at one point by the number of people who felt the need to speak to me, it was almost like I had traded places with someone else. I was "one of them" yet invisible to any person over 25.
Day Three - Wednesday, January 23: I woke up and did just what I had done the past two days. I had an early morning doctor's appointment so I zipped up my teal Abercrombie hoodie and to my appointment I went. By the time I got back home I couldn't take it. I felt 12. I was, in a very literal way, wearing what I wore in junior high. I opt'd to switch tops - swapping my Aber zip for a Misericordia Athletics pull over sweatshirt, something bought for me when I was accepted three years ago. Under my sweatshirt I wore a simple navy tank-top from Aerie, a pair of AG "Angel" jeans, Jay McCarroll socks and sky blue Converse high-tops. I also had to alter my hair. I could not stand to go through another day with my hair straight and getting in my face. I pulled the sides up and clipped them in the back, giving my hair some sort of structure.
I am starting to feel the way I look, something that I did not think would happen. The day was uneventful on the whole. I blended completely. Words cannot express how glad I am that the week is almost through.
Day Four - Thursday, January 24: Today I wore the uniform of the Miseri girl, leggings as pants, tank-top, MU hoodie and sneakers. Most of my friends just gave me a strange look - one went as far as to tell me to "just stop it"(I guess she was sick of my dull appearance). I ran into several member of the English department and one of them, a shorter, middle-aged man, inquired if I had done something different. He couldn't quite put his finger on what, but he knew something had changed. I didn't get the chance to answer because their department chair quickly replied "She discovered hoodies. I don't quite know why." Later at my newspaper layout that I legitimately laughed out loud, when my editor straight up asked what was going on. She had noticed I was doing something on Tuesday when I was in Abercrombie everything.
Day Five - Friday, January 25: TGIF. It is the final day of my experiment and I am ending it on a personal low - a graphic tee from Hollister, AE jeggings (the same pair I wore Tuesday), knited UGG boots and a grey Aerospostle hoodie that is lined in faux-fur. I went to class and then drove back home where I changed into pajamas. No one commented. I was exhausted by the week.
Conclusions: My hypothesis proved to be partially correct. The way I was treated was completely different on all fronts. The student population found a new friend and I blended in and the 25+ set forgot who I was and stop acknowledging my existence. While my stylish appearance garners comments from older people, those same people did not waste their time to speak to me when I looked like the average student and blending into the student population involved much more small talk and much less serious conversation. Somewhere along the way I realized that I had was putting more effort into choosing leggings and a hoodies then I ever had with any dresses.
My takeaway from this experience is that as a whole, our society needs to stop being so judgmental. If a person dresses in a more proper manner it should not make someone is sweats uncomfortable and vice-versa. On the opposite note, I do not understand how a person can opt to dress in the manner I did during the week of Jan. 21-26. My drab duds brought my whole mood down and didn't make me feel better at all.
*After the week ended I donated the tee-shirts with words on them to charity and put the hoodies away for a snow day. The outfits described will never be worn again.
**Throughout this experiment - in typical male fashion - my boyfriend Pete never caught on. He had to be told. He actually said after the fact that he liked my outfit on day one.
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